Cat garlery

Judging people

I dont know if it appear that I ve become a terrible person to my friend. But it does not really matter cause words cant come back. We have some cute persons in our lives , we care about them, and a few year latter when we look back, there are things that makes us concerns.

Most of the case I like my friend.There are things about them that are funny, admirable or if not , they re nice and  friends of friends = friends... Especially in the environment I'm living in, everyone seems friendly, open, a bit professional also. People know people, be nice to people, be friends , we have such a  network. It is sometime a bit fake . But it's ok.

However, I find myself being more aware of the under lying problems of people. I know someone appear to be fun, happy, but there are  torn apart inside. I know some people having very good attitude by their education, but there are shadow of selfish inside. And there are people who re born soft , but lack of strong words from family and will become anything the world force them to be.

I suppose to be with them and tell them in their face what im thinking. But will a few word have any meaning to them, as it is who they are? Or it is better if I pretend to have no comment and accept them and their color? The thing is it is easy to live with a color but what if those color leads to some behavior I can't agree in the future.

Colorful fashion

1. Emerald
Mystery, smart, delightful and trendy

2. Chicken Yellow
It's a light brighten color, which bring a fresh air. Listen more from this blogger, she speak out for yellow. http://newyorkchique.blogspot.com/2008/07/yellow.html

3.Powder pink
It brings feminine, young and authentic. When you see a girl in this kind of pink , you feel pure with a bit of love in her

4. Red
My favorite color for winter.

5. White- Beige
It's simple and invisible. But when you catch, it's some how retain able.

P/s : Song of the day Make it go away- Holy Cole

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DXp81kmfvcI&feature=related

!!! Important: Suit of the day: chicken yellow shirt and emerald cardigan

That's must be the suite of this fall. The same yellow shirt is my dress code in last summer

How to deal with people

OMG, I know about the soft skills, reading haft of the book about this but, it is very annoying the world we have to live in. I'm just mad. Even though I control my self, walk away and try to forget about it, those buzz keeps happening. Especially if you live with one BIG buzz. I just can find peace if I keep on holding back like this.

I need a tough course, to learn to be tough when necessary.
I need to stop act stupidly nice, ignorant about every thing and make people have the chance to step in my face.
I get bored.


Heath, study, excitement is my goal. But I have to add on people skills, quick, smart, neat , organise, achievement and dot dot dot. I have no idea what I have been doing for the last 20 year.

Most on the list of my skills are pretty much born-with-it. Language, communication, math.... They are cute, just not enough for me to be sartisfy with.

Ok, does most people are born with their skills? If so my life might be a bit sad. I lack of so many things. Cross fingers for me.

I made a terrible mistake today

:( How I m gonna survive?

All the mess I create by myself  :(

Song of the day: Terrified -Katherine McPhee
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=un60RISzE-A

Hanging around with perfect people

Hanging around with perfect people and too concentrating people for so long, I forget how imperfect people should act and how a dynamic soul should walk.

Yes, they give me some interest, like the old me used to have.
Act like somebody else
Go out of the box
Just to know how lame you are or how not lame you are.
Because I am curious, and excited

Once again, I want to have the energy
God
Please bless me

P/s Song of the day:

I'd rather be with you

Joshua Radin

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aAJfhZamFmo

Recipe of the day: Shrimp and glass noodle salad

Suite of the day: Nice light pear pinkshirt. Curly hair. Dot headband

Sakura

is my favorite word in Janpanese

Handi craft

(This post is a response to a offensive tweet-in-the-blog of somebody)

There is somebody saying that, a sentence with the wise worth  a thousand time than reading a book. This is a matter of inspiration. This is why I try every means to sit with the right teacher. This is why I m angry with people who say my fav teacher is boring. This is why I show to much adore to people I like. They deserve it, with all the quality they have. I am the one who value valuable thing.

So, there is a cute wise tell me about the power of training. Week can be trained into strong. Struggle can be turn into Smooth. Short term memory can be trained into  Eran Katz ( my mom is a fan of him).

I am a collection of every single bad habits in the world. The only thing I have, good, in meself is a bright , open mind, willing to take on adorable concept and try to make a better person out of all the mess.

The favorite word mommy like to describe me, after pretty is lazy. I admit that I am week, not physically, but mentally. I dont like thing that I have to try hard to success. I am unluckily having a very quick, adoptable mind, and easily success in some tiny field. The more I success, the more I enjoy the field and left out all other the fields I  may be good at, but never try. That is a shame. I could have been a beautiful ballet dancer if I am a stronger kid, who dare to continue to force her leg straight.

So continue with the lazy thing, not trying hard enough, I have bad result with most of thing related to hand ( my feet is long, another advantage, make thing like run and dance easy for me. and, my  brain is good, so there is handi thing left).

 I really really like clothing, so I began this trouble sewing. THe beginning was rough, I cant work with neither the machine, the thread or needle. Real bad. But, after some very stressful hour, while my friend, the successful bad at nothing go so smooth, I finally make myself a pant. IT cute, simple and different. Happy. Many months have passed by, and I m still havent got it smooth as my friend, but go over the old me. There is progress. There is result if you are willing to take the hard work.

 People will have to admire you if you are twice as good as them even though they dont like you ( Ms Rice)

 Im not twice as good at anything, but I know, people must highly value achievement.

And I wont say no to anything, because I know I can do everything.

Khóc

Hồi đó mình đã rất vui, rất hạnh phúc. Bởi vì mình có một ng bạn tuyệt vời. Xong rồi mất. Và mình đã buồn :P, thôi ko làm gì được. Cảm ơn trời đất vì những gì mình có. Sẽ cố cố cố nữa để ko đánh mất những gì đang có.Sẽ cố để thành ng lớn, ko phạm sai lầm nữa. (Mình nếu quay trở lại, có sai cũng là do quá thiếu cẩn trọng, và vô tâm)

Fukuoka - Daewoo

I had a fun time at the Japanese fair a few days ago. The more I know about it, the more I adore Japanese culture. Visit my flickr page for the photos

http://www.flickr.com/photos/beckygarner11/

A very short Jane style post

My post is getting shorter and shorte. Gotta fix that

Sẽ là một lợi điểm cho anh khi quên đi lòng cảm mến nhẹ nhàng mà cả hai có. Dù sao, lòng thương mến ấy cũng sẽ chẳng hại gì nếu cô giữ lại. Thẳng thắn mà nói, đó là một anh chàng đẹp trai quá sức thu hút . Và khó mà trên đời có những ng mà ta đem lòng tôn trọng và quý mến, đặc biệt với giới hạn giao tiếp của cô. Trong khi đó , cuộc đời quả là một con đường cao tốc khi mà bạn là một anh chàng lái xe hồ hởi. Chẳng mấy chốc mà gió sẽ cuốn phăng những tình cảm nhẹ nhàng :)

Hahaha, that's pretty much a few words I learn from the Vietnamese version of Pride and Prejudice. Read books rocks your vocab , yo!

10 things I think about 36 hrs before exam

1. Tóc xù tung và hoành tráng
2. Alice 's dance
3. How to make a girl happy in her birthday?
4. Barney is funny. Where can I get the whole series?
5. ...
6. I m not lesbian. Im still and always into guy . But not most of them  though.
7. Hate people look at me with that "you are lower" look. Gonna kick their ass. Several ways to do so.
8. Supper is good! Yum!
9. ...
10. Why Im texting to him?

To get in love

I been through a quite good day, work hard and have fun. Obviously I , thus , wanna write something. A favorite topic come to my mind was love.

I have heard so many guy says , they re get tired of love. Girl are so "chanh?" and they can't afford time and mind to take care of love thing. So they get out of it, talk about their "love" like a bad memory.

You like someone, you want to be with them, know more about them, yes. So , go on a few date together. It doesn't make love. As you know more , and fall into them, you will want to do more to make them happy. Just then, the real trouble begins.

Two people are not naturally connected will take a lot to get together. How can you get used to all the text messages, emotion , attitudes and all the time required for keeping your relationship lasting, and, come to the next stage. Or you two will just, won't get along, are unsatisfied of each other and finally, "b" word comes?
The answer is sharing soul. Some couple are meant to be, all match. But can most of them be ?

No, there will always be difference in the 2 mind. Hiding the difference will only cause tension and distance. The way you express your self, in consideration of the other 's feeling might help solving . Prove yourself as the only best choice might help solving. Action might help solving. Above all , it is your passion, because love, is all about feeling for girl.

I have a best friend who is just funny and sophisticated. We are totally different but meant to be. There is nothing fun to discover if we were the same type. A relationship is like a new adventure, take the fun out of it and enjoy your happiness. If neccessary, learn to be genourous and adjust. The thing I like about relationship is how yr partner surprisingly impact yr life. If so, make it good impact and get to be a better person.

Literature Review : "My nhan tam ke" & "Luck is not accident"

I'll write this in Vietnamese and translate it into Engligh latter. Thank you ( OMG, I just can't do it, dont know that many words in engligh)

Mấy ngày nay ngồi tu Mỹ nhân tâm kế, một bộ phim đầu tư lớn (không phải tiền bạc) vào kết cấu chặt chẽ, diễn viên có phong thái và câu chuyện cũng rất thiện hướng.

Cái tên đã rất giác ngộ, mỹ nhân xưa nay thường là nghĩ đến kẻ bề ngoài xinh đẹp, lòng dạ nông cạn, nhưng nhũng kẻ như vậy cùng lắm chỉ là phi tần. Để xứng làm vợ vua, chung hưởng đắng cay mặn ngọt, tất phải là người phụ nũ có "tâm". Vậy thực ra muốn thành người con gái khéo léo giỏi giang, không có gì khó , chỉ cần đặt vào đó một chút tâm ý.

Làm người có rất nhiều loại, sống tất khó tránh gặp phải tiểu nhân. Điều quan trọng là giữ được mình trong sạch, hơn nữa là bình thản. Trò đùa của kẻ khác, đòn nào đáng đánh thì đánh lại, còn đâu bỏ qua được thì thôi, không nên tự làm mất mặt mình. Khi tức giận, đếm từ 1đến 10, xem có tan được không ( Donald Duck ). Không biết đây có phải chữ "Nhẫn".

Xem nhiều chưa chắc đã học được nhiều, biết đủ mà dừng lại, tự mình đi làm những chuyện có ích :)

Hôm nay lại được gặp Pheonix, rất vui, được trò chuyện , và được nghe những chuyện có ý nghĩa. Điều cởi mở này, khó gặp được ở nơi khác.

Cô kể chuyện ex của cô đã không có chút cơ hội làm sai và sửa sai trong cuộc đời anh ta như thế nào. Cha mẹ luôn nâng đỡ cho anh ta, khiến chuyện gì anh ta làm cũng đã có ng bảo hộ. Tương tự
Có chuyện là đàn bà không nên cản đàn ông làm chuyện đại sự, nhưng lỡ khong cản người đó mất hết gia sản, biết sống sao. Chỉ có thể nói, người trẻ nên sống hết mình, để đến khi bốn năm mươi tuổi, cầu toàn một chút, biết nhận ra mối nguy mà tránh.


Luck is not accident ( cuốn sách cô lấy làm theme) còn có nhiều concept khác, nhưng tùy mỗi người cũng đã có nhận định riêng. Điều kẻ khác nói chưa chắc đã lọt tai bằng chuyện mình tự rút ra.

Haiz, ước chi mình biết nói chuyện một chút, chắc đã cưa được nhiều anh chàng tốt, cũng sẽ có chút nhận định về đàn ông.

There is rats ( or mouse) in the house

The first time, after the cat left, seeing a rat running in the house makes me cry. In fact, Ive been crying weeks after they gone.

Now it's a common factor of living in house that full of food. I start thinking instead of feeding my cats, I m feeding a few rats.

They came out "chit chit" excitingly at night

They dont bother you a lot

You dont have to spend money buying specified food for rat :)

I've been in holiday for 2 weeks. I have time for family, house work, and time for chatting.Reading properly a few comics help me find how great it is to be young, having friend , full of hope and excitement about the world.

I'm thankful I have a few great friend through periods of life. Sometime I blame myself not care about them enough, or acting too stupid being with them. But very few people can stand me. And if they stand, I believe they will stay.

Friends, you know I appreciate you , right? >

Book of the holiday

Boys Will Put You on a Pedestal (so they can look up your skirt): A Dad’s Advice for Daughters


It has a nice Vietnamese name: "Nghe bố này, con gái!" (Listen to me, Daughter). It short, simple, funny and worth it. Life is too short so don't waste time reading boring book or, non useful one. 

Daddy

Yesterday, daddy come home after 6 days on a line business trip. He look exhausted, but happy, and success.

Suddenly I feel like I'm this man's daughter

And I been always know, the love between a father and his daughter is the best love in the universe

I have it, and I'm happy.

All the tree climbing game, the scratching feet and ... a lot. Daddy is huge and incredible , and sweet and funny in my memory. (even though latter I found out he is just a mess like any man)

Life keep rolling , daddy got old, and daughter grow up, she might forget the love her father gave and the beautiful time they had a few decades ago... But the feeling , the connection will last.

:) never thought I would say this, but, daddy, I love you.

Don't forget

Yesterday I had a silly dream, I have them everyday. The special thing is, weather I remember them :P. So, last night, I saw my self cross over the dark, grey, full of fog morning, alone, very scary, but I felt ok. Im good at searching road. It's in my instinct. Then over the fog, there is the dawn coming, the first light of the day. The most beatiful thing of the universe. I stopped to take picture and there's a lot of friends coming out. Im not alone anymore, and Im confident, strong, funny and all. Still bad at posing , though.

So, it's just a nice dream. It's just travel, risk searching, beautiful moment, capturing and fun. Smt I like. Summer is comming and yei, Im gonna do it

Talking about capturing, I take out my camera and look at it. Poor my camera, I treat it like shit these day. Dirt all over the lense. I will take care of it from now on. By capturing.

So i search through the room and found smt amazing thing I wanna promote

This is my favourite lip balm. Not only the moiturising, but also the incredible smell. Rasbery is the best, like no other.

Every brand will have a few extraordinary product. I 'd like to search for them

This is my heart shape charm. Got it from a vender for ... more then 1 buck. It's not the price that make the value, babe!

The secret about it would never been told. But Im happy I have the faith kept.

A few (12) beautiful bracelets I got from Chap Va, a nice shop with decoration and music and piano. It's small and teenager but teenagers with taste.

I should have more of my clothing there. These chain are too complex when you wanna put them on.

Show my cat

There are a few things I love in this world, like my cat. She is funny, sexy and cute all the time

I thought my life would go by get bored of her face, but no

As a detective, it is her mission to discover every corner of the house

As a model, she knows how to pose, how to looks nature and innocent

As a friend, she will live along with my mess. ( I actually have 2 cats, they are both white, but the guy looks less cute )

As a star, she has to deal with paparazies everywhere

As a cat, she just makes me fall in love every day

She will be in my heart, every time I think of CAT

Love you, my Meomeo

(yes, I did try to put a lot of bows, laces and others on her)

Bonus: Fun fact about Meomeo

1. She does little pee on toilet , and doesn't mind if you stare

2. She loves chasing stuff and bring it back (a DOG things, FYI). But she is so high that she ignore easy threw

3. Her love of life is not me. She is very loyal and follow the one she loves in every step. I may die jealous if I'm not me.

10 things you should do WHEN FALLING DOWN

It is so easy to fall into depression in this stressful, cruel world. Yesterday, you were the wosrt student in the group and tomorrow a good boy slips over your hand. So, you just don't want to smile , no need to mention your mind wandering in the the darkness of grief. This thing is normal and you should deal with it.

So with some personal experiences, this is a psychological remedies for those who need it

1. Friend

It's not that talk the things out would makes you feel better. Everyone knows that talking just do not solve anything unless you sit with a therapist. Like me. However, hanging out and talking in general help your ( especially women) brain gives out a chemical which makes you feel comforted and better.

They said that you should hang with the guy who may has positive affect to your mood. This funny buddy might may be the endless source of jokes and you cant help laughing being with him. On the other hand, he might be just some who match your sense and you guy have fun criticize all the girl in campus together.

2. Eat good food

Believe me, the happiness of good , delicious stuff does not only full your stomach. It fulfills your emptiness as well

3. Dress yourself new: It works with me

4. Listen to good music. No soul, no sad

My depressing list is Glee OST. Lean on me, Stand by you, Smile all are awesome.

5. Care about the other you didnt have time to care

I mean family. A young girl 's life now is all about school, friends and boys. But the closest people in this world you have are family, baby.

6. Work out

Work hard and get exhausted on something

7. New direction_ live with a purpose

This is a dream come true if you can stand up and find your true purpose of life, to stand up for it. ( I meant to repeat that "stand up")

8. Make a new friend

Just to find new concept, or old attitudes that you forgot.

9. I been thinking on that. Anyway,you know, 10 is a nice number, so I put it on the title. So dont expect . My tips are just that

10. Told ya, no more tip

Any way there is an ad. Next post: me make clothing.

Me Style

I've been in love with fashion for a long while. Thus, I keep doing some self stylish and a series of mirror fashion and post it on my Flickr. Ashamed, not many photographer intersted in fashion as they mostly boy :(

So today I present you a Becky fashion show

1st concept: This is simple suite, plain shirt and a complex beaded-a-lot-jean. So the rule is similar for any suite you'd like to put on, plain vs complex, dark vs white, floral vs solid , blah blah

2nd: Multicolor nail. It's ridiculous and it's fun. Sometime you would like to have one spotlight in the total outfit to imply a total rule-breaker inside

Overall, a look is just inspiring. A girl seem so attractive when she know how to make herself special. Do a mark of you in the colour, the favourite shirt. Constantly do short is a fine way of styling last summer. 1st option, because a short and whatever above doesn't matter cause you already sexy. 2nd option, because the simplicity of a short hightlight your top complexity the best. Anyway, I 'm living in a country where dady have the control over girl's dressing right :(

hihi, buồn thì viết

Thich viết lên giấy cơ. Nhưng chữ xấu lắm. Và còn muốn có người đọc, chứ không muốn cất mãi 1 tâm hồn trong ngăn kéo. Dù tâm hồn ấy có nhiều sứt sẹo. Dù có thể chỉ là 1 cơn gió trên cuộc đời bận rộn.

Mùa hè đến là em khổ nhất. Trái tim cứ nhìn thấy nắng bên cửa sổ là lại đẩy cả con người như muốn bay đi, đôi chân cuồng lên muốn chạy, đôi mắt lấp lánh hy vọng được nhìn thấy thế giới. ..

Nếu nói em muốn bay ư, bay đi thì dễ quá. Nhỉ. Muốn đến đâu cứ đến , thích nhỉ. Em muốn tự do như thế. Nhưng thế giới ngoài kia có như em mơ, có như những trang sách em đọc, có luôn nhân văn , và có luôn tươi mới. Em sợ cũng phải thôi, em ạ. Sợ hãi khiến cho em cẩn trọng hơn.

Ngày qua đi em cứ sống vô tư, nhẹ nhàng như thế. Sống như cơn gió mà quên đi, sâu trong em còn nhiều vết thương , đau lắm. Ngột ngạt trong em còn nhiều ước mơ. Cồn cào lắm.

Để rồi em cứ khóc đi, khóc mãi , rồi cũng thôi. Và ngày mai em lại mỉm cười.

Uh đấy , em vẫn cứ là em thôi, dù cho cả thế giới có sụp xuống chân em, dù cho ngoài kia có những con người cứ vô tình, bạc bẽo, độc ác và ích kỷ thì họ cũng chẳng chạm được tới em. Em biết em sẽ sống ổn thôi .

Và yếu ớt cũng là một tội. Em biết thế nào là dũng cảm. Em không ghê sợ ma quỷ hay cái chết bằng ghê sợ cái lạnh lẽo trong 1 con người, nhưng em biết và em biết. Em sẽ đứng dậy khi em cần phải làm thôi. Bởi vì em luôn cao ngạo như thế, và những con người kia thì cũng chỉ là 1 tâm hồn méo mó tội nghiệp.

Tuổi thơ đẹp nhỉ, em chưa gì đã nhớ nó rồi.