Judging people

I dont know if it appear that I ve become a terrible person to my friend. But it does not really matter cause words cant come back. We have some cute persons in our lives , we care about them, and a few year latter when we look back, there are things that makes us concerns.

Most of the case I like my friend.There are things about them that are funny, admirable or if not , they re nice and  friends of friends = friends... Especially in the environment I'm living in, everyone seems friendly, open, a bit professional also. People know people, be nice to people, be friends , we have such a  network. It is sometime a bit fake . But it's ok.

However, I find myself being more aware of the under lying problems of people. I know someone appear to be fun, happy, but there are  torn apart inside. I know some people having very good attitude by their education, but there are shadow of selfish inside. And there are people who re born soft , but lack of strong words from family and will become anything the world force them to be.

I suppose to be with them and tell them in their face what im thinking. But will a few word have any meaning to them, as it is who they are? Or it is better if I pretend to have no comment and accept them and their color? The thing is it is easy to live with a color but what if those color leads to some behavior I can't agree in the future.